I promise this post will help you figure out EXACTLY why you couldn’t CELEBRATE your best success story as you once imagined. But first, we have to define “cheating.” For me, cheating has a LIBERAL definition. 😊 Once, my husband went to a strip club. (Circa 2002. He’d never been before, nor since. I was
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❌ Pay to play media. (Stop pretending you didn’t know you paid $XXXX to be featured in that article. Woman it SAYS “sponsored.” Just yuck.) ❌ Pay to publish books or anthologies. (I LIKE anthologies but am not into vanity publishing. Also, I’ve just never paid to be associated with others. I earn my way
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It troubles / baffles / amazes me to see the growing deluge of women giving away their power…. not to “the man,” but to ANY variety of excuses. Timing. Genetics. Bad Mom. Sneaky Uncle. Hard times. Industry woes. Economic trends. Bottom line: We live in a world of Cause & Effect. This is JUST truth,
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**note: Throughout this article, I will mention “solutions” that YOU may love, or sell. I want to go on the record and say that ALL of them have their place. ALL of them can be useful…. IN THEIR PROPER place. So, please don’t throw THIS baby out with the bathwater.** Of course I sometimes hear
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(Biblical and practical advice below.) I was talking to my Mister recently about how life just feels….. hard, right now. Like, really hard. Harder than I think life SHOULD feel. And WAY heavier. And to be fair, there has been a lot going on in my life. Some, I’m transparent about. Some, though, is just
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This has never been more obvious to me. You see, I got excited about an INCOME-GUARANTEED ($10K months) program I was launching. Ten spots. $1500 down. One person paid and said, “Just paid! Didn’t read the whole thing! Can’t wait to find out more about what’s included! Just know I’m all the way in!” (TRUST!)
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I guaranteed 10 women they’d make $10K in six weeks of NEW income. I only gave one refund. (And even SHE had her best month ever, falling only $900 short on her $10K goal.) But a deal is a deal. So I gave the refund. I’m doing something similar again. THIS TIME, $10K months. And
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REGARDLESS of industry, income, location, etc. It’s not because I have some secret system. (I ONLY use principles that work ALWAYS and REGARDLESS. This is different because I don’t chase shiny objects. I stick to basics that worked THEN, NOW and FOREVER.) It’s not because I offer some magic fairy dust. (Although I’ve been accused
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I love this picture, but I hate the way my smile doesn’t go all the way to my eyes. I love this woman, but I hate the level of stress she carried. I love the life represented in this picture, but I hate the fact that there was this HUGE undercurrent of pressure and stress…
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